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The course

You do not have to become the man who hurt you.

Twenty four lessons for fathers who are still fighting. Start tonight, on your phone.

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You might feel late. Maybe there is drama with his mother. Maybe you already messed up badly enough that you assume the chance is gone. Maybe you had no father at all and you are building from nothing with nobody to ask.

None of that disqualifies you.

A father and his daughter holding on to each other, both with their eyes closed

How it works

Video, then reading, then eight questions you answer yourself.

The eight

Four you write down and we keep. Two you answer in your head. Two are a choice between four options, and all four describe a real man.

Nobody reads three of them

Not us, not a facilitator, not a court. You are told which three before you write a word, because that is the only way the honest answer ever gets written down.

Then one thing to do

Small, specific, and real. Dated, and small enough that you will actually do it.

What it covers

The man before the father, and everything after that.

What to do when it rises. What your child can actually understand at the age they are. The patterns you were handed. Her, and the arrangement. The paperwork nobody explained. What you reach for at night. Coming back after being gone. And the men you are going to need.

  1. 01 The Mirror Does Not Lie 1.1Face the man before you father the child 1.2The rage plan
  2. 02 From Provider to Protector 2.1Two different survivals 2.2Presence when you do not have access
  3. 03 Who You Are Actually Raising 3.1They are not a small version of you 3.2Ten minutes, and what happens inside them
  4. 04 Legacy Over Likeness 4.1Every father leaves a legacy, by design or by default 4.2How curses actually break
  5. 05 Parenting in the Fire 5.1The hardest five things 5.2The mother of your child
  6. 06 Saying It So It Lands 6.1The four minutes before it goes bad 6.2Discipline without fear
  7. 07 Strength and Tenderness 7.1What you were taught strong means 7.2What they learn about love from you
  8. 08 Money, Risk and Weight 8.1The weight you carry 8.2Free, not flashy
  9. 09 The Systems Around Your Child 9.1Your name on the paper 9.2The people holding your child's file
  10. 10 The Right to Start Again 10.1What you have not forgiven yourself for 10.2Making it right
  11. 11 What You Reach For 11.1The thing that takes the edge off 11.2Coming back after you were gone
  12. 12 The Men Around You 12.1You cannot do this alone and you have been trying 12.2The last broken branch
Price

$79

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