A young man talking with his mother at home

Module 6 · AFTER · Lesson 1 of 2

The first hour

What you do in the sixty minutes after decides whether anything can be done about it.

Lesson 11 of 12

Start here

It is over. He wrote you a ticket for something you did not do and searched your car for twenty minutes without asking.

You are sitting in the parking lot two blocks away and your hands are still shaking.

You have about an hour before you start forgetting things. What are you doing with it?

1
Write it down now

Memory degrades fast and it degrades fastest right after something stressful. What you can recall tomorrow will be a fraction of what you can recall in twenty minutes.

Voice memo is faster than typing and it is timestamped. Sit in the car and talk for four minutes.

Say all of it. Time. Street. How many cars. How many officers. What he said first. What you said. What he asked. Whether you said you did not consent. Anything he said that you would not want repeated.

Badge number and car number. If you did not get them, say so out loud too, because that is also a fact.

And this is not for a lawsuit. Most of these never become a case. It is because six months from now you will not trust your own memory of it, and having a recording of yourself from twenty minutes after is worth more than anything you write later.

2
Recording, done the way that works

Recording is protected and it is useful.

And reaching for a phone during a stop is the exact motion this whole course tells you not to make.

So take it out of the encounter entirely.

Mount the phone and set it to record before you drive. There are apps that do this on a trigger. There are dash cameras that cost less than a pair of shoes. Set it up on a Sunday and never touch it during a stop. Hands stay on the wheel. The recording happens anyway.

That solves both problems at once. You get the footage and you never make the movement.

If you are on foot and somebody else is being stopped, you can record. Stand back, do not interfere, do not narrate loudly. Distance is what keeps it lawful and what keeps you out of it.

3
Medical attention counts twice

If anything physical happened, go and be seen. That day.

Once because you might be hurt and adrenaline hides things for hours.

And once because it creates a record with a date on it that nobody can argue with later. A photograph on your phone is a photograph. A medical record is evidence.

Photograph everything anyway. Marks, your clothing, the car, the scene if you can go back. Timestamped, that day.

4
What a complaint actually does

Straight answer, because you deserve one.

Most complaints do not result in discipline. That is the truth and there is no point dressing it up.

File anyway, and here is why. Complaints accumulate. The pattern is what matters, and a pattern only exists if people filed. A complaint that goes nowhere on its own can be the fourth one that finally goes somewhere for somebody else.

And ask for the body camera footage in writing, quickly. Agencies delete on a schedule and the schedule is shorter than you think. A written request with a date stops the clock.

When a lawyer is worth calling. If you were hurt. If you were arrested. If anything was taken. If a search happened that you did not consent to and there was no obvious basis. Public defenders and legal aid cost nothing and the call costs nothing. The number should already be in your phone from Lesson 4.2.

Twenty minutes after is worth more than six months of remembering.

The workEight questions

Two of these nobody reads. They are marked.

1Written

List everything you should say in the voice memo. From memory, before you look back.

2Choose one

Do you have a way to record automatically right now?

  • AYes, mounted and it works
  • BI have an app but I have never set it up
  • CNo, and I could fix that this week
  • DNo, and I do not have a car
3Nobody reads this

Something has already happened to you that you never reported. Why not.

4Written

Write your county's legal aid or public defender number. If it is not in your phone, put it in now, then write the name you saved it under.

5Choose one

You were pushed against a car. No visible marks. It is nine at night.

  • AGo get seen tonight anyway
  • BWait and see how it feels tomorrow
  • CPhotograph it and go if it gets worse
  • DNothing. It was not that bad
6Written

You are recording your friend being stopped. Where do you stand and what do you not do?

7Nobody reads this

Do you believe filing anything would matter? Answer honestly. Then read section four again.

8Written

Write the first three things you will do in the hour after, in order.

DeeperThree reflections

Nobody reads these.

  1. 1

    Write out an encounter you have already had, in as much detail as you can still remember. Notice how much is gone.

  2. 2

    Write about who you would call first, and what it would mean if they did not pick up.

  3. 3

    Write about why people do not report things. Then write which of those reasons is yours.

Before you go

Everything in this lesson takes under an hour and most of it is free.

The reason people skip it is not laziness. It is that after something like this the only thing you want is to be somewhere else and never think about it again, and that is completely understandable and it is exactly why almost nothing ever gets documented.

One hour. Then you can be done with it.

Except that you will not be, and that is the last lesson.

This week

Set up automatic recording, or if you do not have a car, find out how to do it on your phone in one tap. Then put the legal aid number in your phone under a name you will recognize at two in the morning.